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During the Victorian era, a person’s legs
were referred to as limbs, not legs. At that time,
it was believed that just the sight of someone’s
legs could inflame passions, leading to impure
thoughts. Therefore, women wore floor length gowns,
and sometimes, even carved table legs were covered!
In contrast, today we live in a culture of sexual
exploitation. ”Legs” are exposed! That which was
once inconceivable is now considered commonplace.
Yet the sinful and distorted passions we see in
today’s promiscuous society, although more outwardly
prevalent, were just as damaging during the
straitlaced Victorian era. Regardless of the age in
which we live, these passions are often symptoms of
deeper longings and core needs that have not been
met.
The problem of unmet longings is of great
consequence in marriage. Oftentimes when one
struggles with sexual sin, their spouse becomes a
victim of either excessive sexual advances or
increased emotional distancing. The result is an
imbalance of either overindulgence or rigid
restriction. This imbalance prevents sexual
fulfillment between a husband and wife, causing deep
frustration and relational tensions. They run the
gamut from control and anger to despair. Some turn
to immoral activities, becoming trapped in the grip
of their harmful choices that satisfy only
temporarily. They find themselves more deeply
entrenched, moving closer and closer to
self-destructive behavior.
The imbalances of overindulgence and rigid
restriction are a result of being discontent, and
trying to satisfy our deepest longings outside of
God’s perfect balance. This truth can be seen in
Genesis, when Satan tempted Eve in the garden. He
convinced her that God was too restrictive,
preventing her from indulging in the pleasures that
the world had to offer. All she had to do was reach
out and take it. Governed by her impulse for
immediate gratification, Eve exaggerated God’s
boundary, making Him appear to be more restrictive
than He was. Eve insisted that she would die if she
simply touched it. This imbalance of overindulgence
or excessive restriction has plagued mankind ever
since this encounter in the garden. The result of
these imbalances is deep unmet longings.
The danger of living with unmet longings is
that we often react by placing unhealthy
expectations on others. The more pressure we exert
upon other to fulfill our needs, the more we drive a
wedge between ourselves and those we love the most.
This leads to a sense of loneliness and
hopelessness. The problem stems from an unhealthy
pursuit of fulfilling unmet longings solely through
human relationships, when those deepest longings can
only be met by God. As the following chart
illustrates, unmet relational longings lead to high
risk destructive behavior that serves only as a
temporary fix:
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Core Needs fulfilled by God's unfailing love,
grace, mercy, and forgiveness. Freedom is found in His
truth, and in trusting God in the midst of heartache.
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Relational Longings fulfilled by others
through physical touch (hugs and kisses), listening,
encouraging, showing mercy, and serving. Brings
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fills unmet longings. Requires intense emotional
experiences to maintain satisfaction. A counterfeit,
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When we attempt to satisfy our core needs through
human relationships rather than God, we come face to
face with the painful reality that our fulfillment
is short-lived. This lonely experience of having
unmet needs is God’s loving mechanism that prompts
and woos us back to Himself and his generous throne
of grace. He knows that human relationships
cannot completely satisfy. As fulfillment wanes, we
will either move to the outer circle of high risk
behavior or toward the inner circle, clinging to
grace in the midst of pain. It is there that we will
experience the supernatural delight of true and
generous fulfillment.
Those who are suffering in an unfulfilled relationship
need to experience the true fulfillment of a
fully-satisfying relationship with a pleasurable
God. John Piper coined it well when he altered the
Westminster confession: “The chief end of man is to
glorify God by enjoying Him forever.”
God wants us to enjoy Him! We will never truly enjoy
one another until we first enjoy an intimate
relationship with God.
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Fifteen Extra Years |
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If you knew that you were going to die
tomorrow, what would you do if God graciously
extended your life? How would you respond, and how
would your life be different? Would your priorities
change?
If you knew that you were going to die tomorrow,
what would you do if God graciously extended your
life? Would your priorities change? Hezekiah was
granted fifteen extra years, but were these extra
years a blessing or a curse?
As I read the sad yet fascinating commentary in II
Kings 20: 1-21, I see that Hezekiah’s healing and
additional 15 years unleashed his pride rather than
humility. Wouldn’t you think that if you were
dramatically healed it would cause you to live in
humble thankfulness? But such was not the case.
Rather, Hezekiah began his extended life by boasting
in his accomplishments to his Babylonian neighbors
and then immediately focused on his career and quest
for technological advancement. According to history,
he tunneled through rock from both sides of a
mountain and accomplished an incredible feat. So
Hezekiah leaves us with two legacies: the first was
his technological marvel, but the second was
something that would change the course of world
history. This second legacy is found in the very
next verse after Hezekiah’s fifteen extra years come
to an end:
Manasseh was twelve years old when he began to
reign, and reigned fifty and five years in
Jerusalem. And he did that which was evil in the
sight of the LORD, after the abominations of the
heathen, whom the LORD cast out before the children
of Israel. II Kings 21:1-2
He gave his people water, but he left his son
parched, thirsting for his father’s acceptance and
direction. Note Hezekiah’s response when the prophet
Isaiah told him that his children would be carried
away to Babylon and become eunuchs after his death:
“So Hezekiah said to Isaiah, ‘the word of the Lord
which you have spoken is good!’
For he said, ‘Will there not be peace and truth at least
in my days?’
Hezekiah revealed his true nature. He was a selfish man,
concerned only about his personal comfort and
protection. Rather than placing a high value on that
which was most important in life, his family, he
misused his fifteen extra years in vain pursuit of
personal satisfaction and gain. I find it amazing
that when Hezekiah learned that his children would
be taken captive into Babylon, he merely expressed
relief in the fact that at least there would be
peace while he was alive. Upon hearing the news of
future judgment upon his children and grandchildren,
Hezekiah could have prayed and wept as he did for
himself, but he didn’t. His selfish and temporary
focus resulted in a very sad commentary concerning
one of his children, Manasseh. In order to catch the
full significance of this commentary, note what is
stated immediately after the announcement of
Hezekiah’s death:
And Manasseh was twelve years old when he began to
reign, and he reigned fifty-five years.
A quick reading of this verse might cause us to
focus on the young age of the king, or perhaps the
length of time that he reigned. But something far
more significant was taking place. Manasseh,
Hezekiah’s son, was twelve years old when he began
to reign. This shows that Manasseh was born during
Hezekiah’s extra fifteen years! The next verse
describes the vile nature of Manasseh, the most
wicked king of Israel. In II Kings 21:6,9 we read:
And he made his son pass through the fire, and
observed times, practiced witchcraft, and dealt with
familiar spirits and wizards: he wrought much
wickedness in the sight of the LORD, to provoke him
to anger…and Manasseh seduced them to do more evil
than did the nations whom the LORD destroyed before
the children of Israel.
What went wrong? Do you remember what Hezekiah said when
he learned that his children would be taken away
captive? He said, “Will there not be peace and truth
at least in my days?” He was consumed with his own
interests. Hezekiah’s additional fifteen years could
have been fruitful and influential years for his
family, but what is remembered is “Hezekiah’s
Tunnel.” He left Israel with the incredible feat of
tunneling through rock in order to connect an
underground water line. Unfortunately, he did not
connect his son to the water of Living Water.
Rather than weeping and praying for the deliverance of
his children, Hezekiah portrayed an attitude as if
to say, “That’s ok, there isn’t much I can do to
change the future.” His prayers for his children
could have made a difference—God had already proven
that by a miraculous answer to prayer—He had
extended Hezekiah’s life, changing the course of
history! Our prayers do matter; they do make a
difference! We must never give up on our children.
We must pray without ceasing. Why? Simply, because
God is able; and if He is able to extend a man’s
life for 15 years because he asked, then how much
more will God delight in answering the prayer of a
parent to change their children’s hearts!
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Dear Mr. Hamby,
I recently borrowed several of your audio
tapes from a friend. The titles included “The
Strong-Willed Parent,” “The Eighth Blessing,”
and another on Laziness. I have been greatly
convicted and blessed by your teaching. The change
in our family life has been dramatic.
When our first child was born 7 years ago,
I looked and looked for Christian teaching on
discipline and raising godly children. I settled on
a “first-time obedience” approach that was popular.
My husband willingly went along with it, being as
uncertain as I was about how to raise Godly
children.
I carried a lot of anger and resentment
toward my children. I viewed their
disobedience as a personal offense against me.
I was exasperated by their lack of self-control and
emotions. My oldest daughter is very strong-willed,
and her temper tantrums were outrageous. The
tantrums were not used as a tool to get attention in
public or to manipulate me, but they were always
directed at me (rarely her father) in the home. Her
behavior outside of the home was impeccable. It made
it very hard to talk with anyone about this problem.
No one believed there WAS a problem, or passed it
off as an isolated incident or a “stage.” And no one
ever, ever challenged me to remove the log in my own
eye. She did not sleep well at night since very
early on. She was defiant and talked back a
lot. My daughter never completed a chore without
intervention from me. She was determined to
have her say when corrected. It was an uphill
battle all the time, and quite frankly I didn’t
enjoy her at all.
I read Heartfelt Discipline by Clay
Clarkson last summer, and I was convicted that I had
found a discipline style that suited me early
on...and that I had not truly searched the
scriptures to find how to reach my children’s
hearts. While I thought I was following God’s lead,
I realize that I had my own agenda and it was a
self-righteous one that didn’t require me to change.
I wasn’t willing to consider that my convictions
were selfish ones. I confessed my sin to the Lord
and began to show more tenderness and self-control
with my daughter. I still fell into the old ways
often, though.
It wasn’t until I listened to your tapes
that I really heard some things to apply in my life.
Your frankness and honesty about your personality
and about your mistakes spoke right to my heart.
I could have put my name in your place. I was
ALWAYS correcting my daughter, ALWAYS finding fault
with her endeavors, ALWAYS saying her name in a way
that implied disapproval or correction, ALWAYS
fussing about undone chores. I had placed
responsibility over relationship. I had a child who
was fearful of my correction - that’s the root of
the sleep problem, and the reason for her
unwillingness to try so many things. I was not
casting out fear with love. The story about
making the bed – ouch! That was going to be me in
ten years. You were so transparent as you told
of your relationship with the sheep and Jonathan.
I realized that my little girl had very
little chance of earning my approval. I
stopped getting angry every time a simple chore was
left undone. I stopped spanking. I
stopped lecturing. I started cleaning her toys
up outside without asking her to help. I went
upstairs and made her bed in the morning. She
spent a Saturday morning with me to run errands.
I asked her what she wanted to do, and that’s what
we did. The errands got done another day. She loves
flowers and gardens; I bought her a ton of seed
packets and helped her plant them. She loves
to paint; I started painting with her several times
a week. I started hanging a butterfly on her
closet door at night after she fell asleep, so if
she woke up she would KNOW that I had kept my
promise to check on her. I started hugging and
kissing her intentionally.
In a matter of days, the most remarkable
thing happened. I was doing some cleaning, and
I asked my youngest to do a small chore, which she
did willingly. Without my asking for help, my
daughter set about doing chores—big chores that
required a lot of effort on her part. She dusted,
swept, and washed dishes. She straightened up
and put things away properly. It was then I
realized what a different child she had become.
She sleeps better at night. She laughs more,
and she is not as angry. She takes offenses from her
younger sister better. She handles disappointment
with grace and not anger. She says “yes ma’am” and
“no ma’am” consistently. She accepts my correction
willingly and changes her behavior when necessary.
She cleans up her outdoor toys without being told.
She wants me to read to her now instead of just
tolerating it. And best of all, she has started
talking about the things that are in her heart, and
she wants ME to hear them.
When I started trying to disciple her the
way Jesus would, she bloomed. She is a joy to be
with, and I have lost my anger and impatience. When
those feelings do try and creep to the surface I can
label them, confess them, and deal with them before
they control me.
Thank you for being so honest and sharing
so much of yourself as you lecture. God allows us to
remember our sins, not so we condemn ourselves
repeatedly, but so we can show others what he has
delivered us from.
I look forward to reading more of the
wonderful books you have published and sharing them
with my two beautiful daughters.
Our God is a GREAT God.
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A rushed
businessman plunked a dollar into the cup of a man
selling pencils on the sidewalk. Half a block down
the street, he turned around and made his way back
to the beggar. “I’m sorry,” he said as he picked out
his favorite color in a pencil. “In my haste I
failed to make my purchase. After all, you are a
businessman just like me. Your merchandise is fairly
priced and of good quality. I trust you won’t be
upset with my failure to pick out my purchase.” With
that he smiled and quickly went on his way.
At lunch a few months later, a neatly dressed,
handsome man approached the businessman’s table and
introduced himself. “I’m sure you don’t remember me,
and I don’t even know your name, but your face I
will never forget. You are the man who nspired me to
make something of myself. I was a street bum selling
pencils until you gave me back my self-respect. Now
I believe I am a businessman.”
from Forty-Eight Days - Hope and Inspiration
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If we confront
a deeply entrenched idol directly and say, “I’m not
going to do that anymore,” two things happen. We
develop a negative focus, and we create a
satisfaction vacuum in our lives. A negative focus
leads us to self righteousness and blindness. An
unmet need for satisfaction pulls us toward false
solutions like iron filings to a magnet. We need to
find true satisfaction to fill our unmet needs. If
we try to dislodge idols in our own strength, we
will become defeated and deluded. If we find
satisfaction in Jesus, the idols lose their power
and appeal.
From Living Free by Beth Moore
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Currently I am involved in
research on character development and family
counseling. During my course of study on adolescent
conflict and restoration I came across the following
verse in Lamentations. As I began digging I knew I
had struck gold!
“It is good for a man that he should bear the yoke
in his youth.”
Lamentations 3:27
Jeremiah pours out his heart as he endures the
unbearable rejection of his peers. He feels unloved
and devalued, and spends a significant amount of
time blaming God as being responsible for his
deepest hurts and unmet longings. He literally
blames God for using him as target practice!
He bent His bow, and set me as a target for His
arrows.
Lamentations 3:12
Half of chapter three is devoted to blaming God
for this seemingly incurable despair. Note the
following accusations he levels against God:
“He has driven me away…”
“He has made me walk in darkness…”
“He has turned His hand against me…”
“He has wasted my flesh…”
“He has shattered my bones…”
“He has hedged me about that I can’t get out…”
“He has made my chain heavy…”
“When I cry out and call for help, He shuts out my
prayer…”
(Lamentations 3:1-8)
It would seem that in a court of law this would be
enough evidence to convict God of assault and
battery. But certainly this cannot be possible,
because the very character of God dictates
otherwise. You see, God is love, and in Him is no
darkness at all. He loves us so much that He who
knew no sin became sin for us, so that we might
possess the very righteousness of God. This is love
that cannot be measured. It is so vast, so
overwhelmingly beautiful. But in his despair,
Jeremiah blames God! He cannot see beyond his
overwhelming sorrow.
Though God was not the cause of Jeremiah’s unmet
longings, I believe that his complaint follows the
pattern of what most adolescents experience when
they feel unloved and devalued. These feelings of
despair and inner turmoil, though unpleasant, are a
necessary step in the maturing process of
adolescents. To protect them from this process is to
delay the transition from adolescence to adulthood.
Today, we have many twenty, thirty, and forty year
olds that I would consider stuck in an adolescent
mindset. They simply have not grown up. Apart from
interacting with God, it is impossible to reach
genuine maturity.
We live in a day when youth are protected from
bearing their “yoke.” Well-meaning parents often
shield their teens from making wrong decisions, but
a wise parent understands that allowing their child
to suffer the consequences of wrong choices can be a
beneficial learning experience.
God knew that Jeremiah’s turmoil would help him
more than hurt him. In the midst of his pain the
prophet cries, “I vividly remember my sufferings and
because of this, I have hope!” Can you imagine? How
can he say that he has hope as he remembers how much
he has suffered? Simply, each of us can look back
and see that God has delivered us in small and
unusual ways. Yes, some hurts are greater than
others, but He never leaves us in a state of
despair, without hope. There is always hope—but it
cannot be found apart from a very important step.
Listen to the prophet Hosea’s words:
Come, let us return to the Lord. He has torn us
but he will heal us; He has injured us but He will
bind up our wounds…that we may live in His presence.
Hosea 6:1
Suffering, particularly emotional suffering, is an
important process in adolescent development. If the
adolescent receives the necessary support during
this time, they will learn that this too shall
pass—that the sun will indeed rise again another
day. The problem however is that teens often build
walls during this time of intense suffering, thus
delaying the lessons that they could be learning.
The prophet Hosea hits the nail on the head when it
comes to the reason that adolescents and adults fall
short from experiencing the shift from despair to
hope:
And they do not cry to Me from their heart when
they wail upon their beds. Hosea 7:14
God desires for us to cry out to Him, to take off
the masks, and pour our heart out to Him. He will
hear and He will act. God bruises that he might
heal. He injures in order to restore.
In his darkest hour Jeremiah has hope. Being
convinced of God’s goodness, he pens these immortal
words,
“It is by the kindness of our great God that we are
not destroyed, for His mercies never fail.
They are new every morning; great is your
faithfulness.
The Lord God is my portion, says my soul,
therefore I will hope in Him.
The Lord God is good to those who wait for Him, to
the soul seeking Him.”
(Lamentations 3:22-25)
God allowed the pain so that Jeremiah would
experience Him as the One who could meet his deepest
needs. Only in the midst of his pain, could Jeremiah
experience the resurrection power of God’s
incredible compassion and grace. Through the reality
of his pain, Jeremiah saw the reality of God’s
never-ending compassion. He had experienced it
before and was able to count on it again for his
present difficulties, for His mercies never fail!
“For the Lord will not reject forever,
For if He causes grief,
Then He will have compassion,
According to His abundant loving kindnesses.
For He does not afflict willingly.”
(Lamentations 3:31-33)
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If you look back five
years, who would you say has influenced your
thinking? To whom have you turned for
inspiration? In our day of shallow
thinking and tainted worldviews, who has motivated
you to move forward to fulfill your dreams or to
answer that subtle (or sometimes not-so-subtle)
calling deep within? Better yet, whose
thinking have you influenced? Who has turned
to you for inspiration? And who have you
motivated to fulfill their dreams or to answer that
calling deep within?
We neither live nor thrive in a vacuum.
We are neither rocks nor islands. It is our
very nature to be influenced or inspired by others;
it is our privilege to do the same.
To say that there is no one in your life who
has been influential or inspirational, perhaps
because you live in a spiritually or culturally, or
even geographically deprived area is a poor excuse.
You can be surrounded by extraordinary and ordinary
people who, through their heroic actions or humble
spirit have made a huge difference in this
world—either in our day, or in days gone by; in our
land, or on exotic soil. Reading books—good books,
life-changing books—gives you the opportunity to
experience life outside of your finite, limited
world. You can bear the burdens, celebrate the
triumphs, enjoy the experiences and learn the
lessons of real men and women, boys and girls whom
you will never see with your eyes nor touch with
your skin. What richness! What depth! What an
opportunity to be influenced and inspired!
Many great people have made a difference in my
life since I began to read (at twenty-two years
old!) I particularly love the story about the boy
who asked many questions. He asked so many questions
that his father thought he was stupid and his
teacher considered him a dunce, and requested that
he be removed from school. But his mother believed
in him. She believed that God had a special plan for
his life. She inspired him to pursue his dreams.
Years later, he became a famous inventor. This is
what he said:
“My mother was the making of me. She was so true, so
sure of me; and I felt that I had someone to live
for. I did not have my mother very long, but in that
length of time, she cast over me an influence which
has lasted all my life. If it had not been for her
appreciation and her faith in me at a critical time
in my experience, I should very likely never have
become an inventor.” Signed, Thomas Edison
This glimpse into Thomas Edison’s life helped me to
realize the power of influence. Note Edison’s own
words—“an influence which lasted all my life.”
Sometimes all it takes to light the fire that idly
simmers within hearts, all it takes to release the
pent-up creativity, all it takes to soften the
many-layered hard, crusty shell—is just the right
person, or just the right book—carefully selected;
carefully timed.
In my early twenties, I longed for a spiritual mentor
whom I could follow. Our church fellowship was sweet
and endearing, but something was lacking. I wanted
conversations that were filled with the issues of
life. I wanted to grapple with besetting sins and
plans that would change the world. But my inner
longings weren’t satisfied. I needed to be
influenced. I needed someone to turn to for
inspiration. Then, during the summer of 1980, a
dozen biographies arrived in the mail, special
delivery, from a man who knew my secret—I hated to
read! I held the box, and after my initial diagnosis
that it wasn’t a bomb, I reached inside and pulled
out a book. The first thing I noticed was that it
was small and non-threatening—only about 3/8ths of
an inch thick—and since I never judged a book by its
cover, only by its size, I decided I would give it a
try. It was the biography of D.L. Moody. Before I
knew it, I was half-way through. Literally, I
couldn’t put it down! I had found my first mentor,
and my love for reading was ignited.
Could there be another book in that box that could
breathe life into such a thirsty soul? I reached in
and found another “thin one.” He Dared to Trust God
for Countless Orphans, the life-story of George
Mueller. Skeptical at first, I found myself three
hours later, still reading! What faith Mueller had!
What commitment to Jesus Christ on behalf of those
helpless, starving children. He fed them through his
incredible, faith-believing prayers! I wanted to be
like him—yearning to taste the miraculous power of
answered prayer!
I learned an important lesson that week. I learned that
my mentors could be found on the pages of great
books. Inspired by what D.L. Moody did on his feet
and what George Mueller did on his knees, I began to
pray like I’d never prayed before, and then I began
to attach those prayers to my feet. I will never
forget the time I was visiting the parents of
children who were attending my children’s church
class. The parents of this one particular family had
never attended our church, so I gave them a visit.
After several knocks on the door, in a neighborhood
where I felt strangely out of place, this large,
dark figure emerged and pressed his nose against the
fogged storm door. “Thank you, Mr. Hayes, for
sending your children to our church,” was my
introduction. There was a strange and eerie silence,
so I repeated my nervous thank-you as I began my
backward decent. He was an impressive figure with
flaring nostrils and bulging eyes—about two hundred
thirty pounds. Safely at my car, I began to open the
door, when all of a sudden he bolted out of his
house, running toward me like a mad man with a meat
cleaver! It was the quickest prayer I’d ever
offered! Face-to-face he began to taunt me, yelling
that if I ever came back, he’d eat me up and spit me
out! There I was—five foot six and ¾ inches—standing
against a six-foot, two-hundred-thirty-pound
Godzilla! Fortunately for me, he was really
referring to eating me up and spitting me out in a
game of basketball as we stood near his court. It
was like a Clint Eastwood-style movie. I turned,
looked him straight in the eyes and said, “Why wait
till next time, let’s do it now!”
Was I crazy? This guy could destroy me in a game of
basketball—there was no doubt. But I had an edge—a
powerful God who really could answer the innocent
prayers of simple faith. This was not really about
basketball. I was fighting for a soul. I can’t
remember when I was more confident. I could just
sense that God was there. All eight of his children
and his wife came out to cheer. I looked at Mr.
Hayes and told him that I wasn’t a betting man, but
if I won, he would have to come to church for the
next two Sundays; if he won I would be his slave
every Saturday for one month. I felt that it was a
win-win situation for me, but with all my heart I
wanted this man to come to hear the gospel. He again
taunted me, saying how he would eat me up and spit
me out; but then there was a change in his behavior.
I asked him if I could borrow a pair of his old
sneakers (I learned this from Hudson Taylor!) He was
shocked that I would ask him, of a different skin
color, to wear his shoes. I wore a size 9—he was a
13! Can you picture this? So there I was—it was a
classic David and Goliath scene. First, I went over
to a large rock behind the court, knelt and prayed,
“Lord, I am in big trouble! I need your help. Please
help me to beat this guy so he’ll come to church.” I
could feel him breathing down my neck as he yelled,
“Hey, what you doing, man!?” “I’m talking to my
Coach,” I retorted with a smile. Let the game begin!
You just had to be there. He wouldn’t let me dribble the
ball more than three feet on the court before he
forced me out of bounds. He was playing tough. All I
could do was throw the ball toward the basket from
about thirty feet away and—SWISH! Fifteen in a row!
Everything I shot in the air went in. Angels must
have been sitting on top of the basket, catching
everything I shot and guiding them in! You should
have seen his face!
Two weeks later, during the Sunday evening message, Mr.
Hayes was the first person down the isle, calling
upon the Lord to be saved! And to think all of this
happened because of a book about a man who put his
faith to his feet, and another who lived it out on
his knees. Finally, I was experiencing what, up to
this point, I had only been reading about. It was
true—all true—there is a living faith, an abundant
life that God has planned for each us. All I needed
was for someone to show me the way. I had been
influenced. I had been inspired. And there was no
turning back.
Oh, if there were only enough room for me to tell you
about the life-changing stories of Amy Carmichael,
John Newton, Hudson Taylor, Charlie Jones, Fenelon,
Gladys Alward, and Esther Anne Kim! I am
wholeheartedly dedicated to the task of finding
literary treasures that will give all of us, young
and old, hope to take on life’s challenges, courage
to overcome overwhelming obstacles, and resolve to
answer the inner calling that leads to a life of
purpose and meaning. Simply, it is my desire to fan
the flame, that it might burn brightly in our
children’s hearts. As we at Lamplighter Publishing
unbury these lost treasures, may they serve to
inspire and influence you, and to help you to
motivate others to fulfill their dreams and answer
that calling deep within.
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Future Dividends |
Artisan’s of old created beautiful works of art for
the sheer love of their craft. Oftentimes their work
was neither recognized nor appreciated at the time.
Van Gogh’s paintings were not appreciated as being
of great value during his lifetime, but he painted
with a passionate fervor nonetheless. Generations
later, these masterpieces were realized as such, and
today collectors worldwide are willing to pay great
sums of money for a Van Gogh original. If financial
reward had been Van Gogh’s sole motivation, we would
not be able to enjoy the wonderful contribution of
his labor of love. May we passionately strive toward
excellence in that which God has given us to do for
the sheer love of our craft, whether it be composing
music, administrating a business, or being the
world’s best “soccer Mom!” Someday our efforts and
labor of love will pay great dividends.
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Ezra: A Ready Scribe |
As I probed further into
the meaning of the names in the genealogical record
of Jesus, I turned to the book of Ezra to examine
the meaning of Azor. The names Ezra and Azor contain
the same root letters, similar to that of John or
Jon, Mat or Matt, Lori or Laurie in the English
language. After learning that both Ezra and Azor
means “helpful,” it was fascinating to discover why
Ezra was chosen to help in the rebuilding of the
temple.
In Ezra 7:6 we read: “This Ezra went up from
Babylon; and he was a ready scribe in the law of
Moses, which the Lord God of Israel had given: and
the king granted him all his request, according to
the hand of the Lord his God upon him. Verse 10
explains why the hand of God was upon Ezra: “For
Ezra had prepared his heart to seek the law of the
Lord, and to do it, and to teach in Israel, statutes
and judgments.” Ezra’s focus was God. He was blessed
in all that he did because of his commitment to God.
But there is another characteristic that made Ezra
so admirable. Why was he chosen above all others by
the king of Persia? Was it because he was the most
religious? I believe there is yet another reason.
Ezra was described as being a “ready” scribe. The
word “ready” comes from the Hebrew word ryhm which
means” to make haste, to be liquid, to flow easily,
to be diligent, swift, and skillful.”
After preparing his heart, Ezra prepared his hand.
He took the time and initiative when he was young to
cultivate habits and skills that would prove him
worthy. Being impressed with these attributes, the
king of Persia chose Ezra, prepared in heart and
hand, to rebuild the house of the most high God.
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